Everything is not for free because humanity became like that, back in the days they used to trade things, you had water i had food, we traded them and we were both fine.
Now the fact that we all forgot from where we all started and we ask money even to help someone nowdays which helping someone supposed to be free otherwise it's not help, it's offering your "services" it's everyone's problem.
And like @MMOTOP.eu said, when you started your topsite you copied hopzone's site and look at you now, you don't even do what you supposed to do just because of your personal likings. You have some forum rules, even if everyone's following them if you don't like him, his content, his what the hell you don't like you simply disable their servers just because you have one of the most visited l2topsites nowdays.
So yeah we prefer new topsites that will actually support server owners, provide them oportunities to advertise their servers chepaer or even for free and trying to help in any way possible, i surely prefer that than registering to your site just because of its visits and having you treating me like crap just because you don't like my content.