i dont have any .ini's for you, but if its c4 you should be around ivory tower somewhere.
some advice on how things should be setup,
spellsinger- should be using surrender + hydro blast, walking. resting at 5-10% mp. attack aggros first (you could use the "attack alone" option if you really want to play it safe). for recharges you can set a control setting to pm the se when hes at lets say 40% mp to recharge.
se- should be on auto follow of course, /walk with "auto sleep" on, buffing empower and whatever else you want, healing if you want it.
since your a sps, eventually your going to have to sit down, so make sure you se is set to "follow healer sit". if your server restarts alot, try to have the SE + SPS on the same regloin delay. if you find youself getting your ass-kicked to badly, downgrade to an area you can handle, and just farm there for money to buy your homu/valhalla.
this is all pretty basic info, but it could help.