you forgot to tell us, what chronicle you play ;]
but anyway for exp use +str -con
about eq to exp I prefer tallum heavy (+8% atack speed) , for pvp Ic set.
Weapons, hmm ofc health, even on exp haste sa gives almost nothing.
about skill enchant, ofc shield stun and roots.
For rb nm heavy set or IC, dyes +con, you can enchant aura hate and agression, and UD + time