Calm down ^^ btw if you guys config your ports the right way, speed I think will not be problem. I mean, some torrent programs use ports to speed-up. Like emule.
I think is... -STR + CON or -DEX + CON if you want have more CP, HP, Stun resistence and another craps.. or +STR -CON and +DEX - CON to attack, exping etc.