@DeathSpank287:
The too many servers situation would not be a problem is people had a brain,simple, after seeing 100 equal servers (IT mostly), same features,balblabla, people should ignore them, period. If people ignored them, after a while such servers would not open anymore.
As for the rest, well, it depends on the players themselves, players have to learn, many of them need to gain maturity, and think before speaking. You are absolutely right on what you're saying, but I'm willing to bet my house that things will not change.
About the players crying and making bad advertisement, well, its a moderator's job to prevent that and punish those who do it. E.g. I saw a couple of good servers in MxC's advertisement zone, but they just get flooded by players complaining, most of those complaints aren't even true. What happens then is readers just assume its a crappy server based on those comments, and a good server is lost.