I am playing in official but i am wondering if you know any hard to xp server similar to official with lots of players because iam a little board of official ty

I'd recommend you l2dex - 5x. Its not hard to exp there , harder is to farm there :P x1 spoil/drop mats amount. Very nice protection against walker, so don't even think about botting there. Theres around ~2k players playing there, and its a fresh server.