[Help] CommunityServer.properties change settings

I eddit CommunityServer.properties:

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# This is the Community Board server configuration file.

EnableCommunityBoard = true

CommunityServerHostname = localhost <<<-- what I have to put? localhost here?

CommunityServerPort = 9013 <<<---- I opened port 3306 to install server. I have to put 9013 here or 3306 ?

CommunityServerSqlDpId = 200 <<<---- hexid ? or no?

CommunityServerHexId = 123456  <<<----ServerHexId?

# NetCon configurations

# ================================================================

# TCP Server start

# ================================================================

# ExternalHostAddress: Use * bind all available IPs

# Default: *

ExternalHostAddress =My ip <<-- This is my Ip external. it is ok ?

# ExternalPort: Use 0 bind all available Ports

# Default: 0 <<-- what port i have to pu here? 9013 or 3306?

ExternalPort = 0

# ConnectionQueue: Maximum connections.

# Default: 50

ConnectionQueue = 50

# Default: False

FloodProtectionEnabled = False

# Default: 15

FastConnectionLimit = 15

# Default: 350

FastConnectionTime = 350

# Default: 700

NormalConnectionTime = 700

# Default: 50

MaxConnectionperIP = 50

# Default: False

IPBannEnabled = False

# Default:

IPBannList =

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# TCP Client start

# ================================================================

# SendBufferSize: DO NOT TOUCH!

# Default: 8192

SendBufferSize = 8192

# SendBufferSize: DO NOT TOUCH!

# Default: 8192

ReceiveBufferSize = 8192

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I have error:

CommunityServerThread: Trying to connect to localhost on port 9013.

CommunityServerThread: Connecting to localhost on port 9013 failed.