I have a question I site and works with php file and want to make a cone server what to do.; 
  
I put the ip of the server here 
  
<?php 
$L2JBS_config["mysql_host"]=181.40.129.100;   // MySQL IP <----and does not connect 
  
$L2JBS_config["mysql_port"]=3306;      // MySQP port 
$L2JBS_config["mysql_db"]="L2jdb";      // l2jdb or your lineage 2 server database name 
$L2JBS_config["mysql_login"]="server";      // MySQL Login name 
$L2JBS_config["mysql_password"]="123456789";      // MySQL Password 
  
"Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: Lost connection to MySQL server at 'reading initial communication packet', system error: 111 in /public_html/freya/config/_config_procs.php on line 3 
Couldn't connect to MySQL" 
  
it's from my site 
  
MySQL's my.cnf file 
[mysqld] 
user=mysql 
bind-address=181.40.129.100 <--server IP  
  
I put the ip of the server here and does the site regularly connect to the server but the gameserver crashes and stops working in msql 
  
please who knows something about this topic help 
  
the server working on linux Debian